Yes I Can Help..!

Hello World..

As Each Day In Our Lives Pass.. We Face Those Times When We Really Need A Little Help Around.. And How Happy We Become When That Reaching Hand Comes To Hold On To Us Against The Hardest..

" Why Cannot We Be That Reaching Hand For Others..?! "


I Really Get Surprised By How Some People Refuse To Help Others.. Even By Providing A Tiny Little Detail That Might Actually Help A lot..! It Surprise Me Cuz It's So Much " Na7asa " ..!

 Doesn't Accure To You That Someday, Somehow You Might Need This Person's Help..?!

Or Doesn't Even Accure To You That Helping Out Won't Make You Any Less Than Who You Really Are.. But Might Actually Add To You More..?!

If You Are Able To Help.. Then Why Can't You Just Help Out..?!

Helping Others Isn't Just Part Of Being Nice.. It's Also Part Of Being There For Others.. Part Of Giving..  We Don't Live Alone.. We Won't Live Alone Even If We Want To.. Because We Will Need Others.. And Others Will Need Us..

Let's Be Handful, Useful And Helpful.. To Prove Ourselves Out There.. Not Proving To Anyone In Specific But To Prove To Ourselves How Giving Can Be Returned Back.. And How Being Nice Is A Reward By Itself..

I Don't Want To Forget How Helping Has This Huge Positive Effect On You.. The Smile, The Hand Shake, The " Thank You " You'll Hear.. Is Really Worth The Amount Of Help You Gave Whether It's Small Or Big..

So Let's Say It Between Ourselves.. Or Say It Out Loud..

" I'm Here To Help.. Yes I Can Help.. I Would Always Help.. Whether I Like It Or Not.. I Promise To Be Helpful As Long As I Can.. "

Little Thoughts By Me,
BeRo0Q8

You Still Have Time To " GIVE "..

Hello There..

Remember When I Wrote About The NBK Cancer Kids Party Read : Here

Well The Idea Was Having A Party For Them Every Month.. And The Second Party Will Be On Monday 31-10-2011.. It's Kinda Early Cuz Of Eid Ala'97a..

So You Still Have The Chance To Make Kids Happy.. And Participate By A Gift Or By Your Time.. Any Little Thing You Give.. Means A Lot To Them.. To Us.. And To You..!

You Can Still Make A Difference.. And You Can Still Give..

For Gifts Donation Dilever Them To @tulipiassense In Al-Tilal Complex Tel : 66 32 32 77

For Any Question And More Info About It You Can Contact My Dear Friend: Q8Rain  Or By Her Twitter Account: @Q8Rain

" Little Moments " ..

Hello There...


This Is My Song For Today..
Really Country Music Makes You Wanna Fall In Love.. <33
Enjoy..

When PINK Is Not Just A Color..!

Hello There..

It's October The Month That Dress Up All In Pink.. A Girly Color I Know But With A Meaningful Cause.. October Is Breast Cancer Awarness Month ( BCAM ) Is An Annual International Health Campaign Organized By Major Breast Cancer Charities Every October To Increase Awareness Of This Disease And Raise Funds For Research Into It's Cause. Prevention, Diagnosis, Treatment And Cure The Campaign Also Offers Information And Support To Those Affected By Breast Cancer. [Source]

They Say The Best Cure For Breast Cancer Is Early Diagnosis.. So Don't Underestimate This Little Evil Monster That Eats You From Within.. You Are Important Not Only For Us.. But For Yourself.. Do Check Ups Every Once And A While.. It's True " Prevention Is Better Than Cure '' .. You Can Check It Alone At Home  ( Check Here ) Or By Your Doctor.. Make Sure It's Every Month Once You Turn 20..


And For Those Who Have It I Say " The Most Important In Illness In Never To Lose Heart..! '' ~ Nikolai Lenin.. And Never Ever Give Up.. You Are A Fighter..

And Men Should Also Make Those Check Ups Cuz :

And It's Great When People Do Simple Things Just To Spread The Awarness Such As Famous Places Turns Pink..

And This Pic Was Taken By My Fellow Blogger FroyoNation : [ Here ]

 

Together We Can Make A Difference.. Together We Will Go Through This.. Keep On Fighting Don't Give Up On Your Body.. Yourself.. And Your Life..



Be Her/Him For A Minute..!!

Hello There..

You Know How When You Get Into A Situation And You Are So Upset About It And Share It With Your Friends And They Tell You: '' Yeah I Understand How You Feel..! ''.. They Do Understand But Some Might Underestimate How You Really Feel.. And You Are More Likely To Believe The Person Who Say To You: '' Yeah I Know, I've Been There Before..! '' Cuz Both Of You Are Facing Or Faced The Same Thing So You Can Understand How Both Of You Feel Or Felt.. And Share With Each Other The Ways To Get Out Of That Situation Or Whatever It Is..


That Person Can Be Found.. But Not Always.. So Why Not That Person Be You..?!


How You Ask..?


Alright.. It's True That This Is Gonna Be Hard.. Not Always Will You Be Able To Understand Others.. Not Always You Will Face What They Face.. Not Always Will You Have The Answers They Need.. Not Always Will You Care.. But There Is One Thing You Can Do.. " Put Yourself In Their Shoes '' As They Say..


And This Doesn't Have To Work Only For Family, Friends Or Whoever You Know.. Strangers To0..!!
Yup.. Whatever People Do.. Wheather It Upsets You Or Not.. Just Put Youself In Their Position And Be Them For A While.. You Will Understand Even For A Little Bit How Does It Feel To Be Them.. You Will Excuse Their Actions.. You Will Forgive Their Mistakes.. And This Will Save You From Hating Them.. Or Being Angry At Them..

Just Open Up And Relax.. We All Not Perfect.. We Are Just Us.. We Complete Each Other..!

One Door Closed.. Another Opens..

Hello Again..

It's Life... Lots Of Lessons.. Lots Of Mistakes.. Lots Of Chances.. Lots Of Disappointments.. Lots Of Open Doors.. And Of Course Lots Of Closed Ones..

It's Not Easy When A Door You Waited For To0 Long To Open And Got This Close From It You Find Out It's Locked Again.. Sometimes You Have To Look For Other Doors To Open So You Can Finally Open This One.. Sometimes You Just Have To Wait Till It Opens.. Other Times You Just Have To Convince Yourself That This Door Will Not Open..!

So Many Reasons Unexplained Ones Behind Closed Doors.. Maybe What's Behind Them Is Just Not For Us.. Or Maybe We Are Not Yet Ready To Face This New Challenge..

Prepare Yourself To Get Slammed By Doors.. Prepare Yourself To Stand In front Not Only One Closed Door But Many.. But This Will Not Stop You To Look For The Next Door You're Suppose To Open..!

And Always Put In Your Mind.. " These Doors Are Only Closed Not Locked.. " If It's Not Gonna Open Today.. Someday, Somehow It Will.. Just Not Now..!

P.s :( Don't Forget Those Closed Doors Are Meant To Open.. By The Chosen Keys..! )

Blind By Choice..!

Hello..

When I OverLook The Things You Do..  I'm Blind..
When I Forget The Things You Did..  I'm Blind..
When You Hurt Me And I Smile..  I'm Blind..
When I Laugh About What Makes Me Cry..  I'm Blind..
When I Move On Without Looking Back..  I'm Blind..

I'm Blind..  When I Live In The Moment Not In My Past..
I'm Blind..  When I Act Stronger To Not Be Called Weak..
I'm Blind..  When I Pretend I'm Whole Though I'm Shattered Into Pieces..
I'm Blind..  When I Say Whatever Just To Hide What I Really Feel..
I'm Blind..  When I Can't Confess That I'm Living A Lie..

You See.. I'm Blind By Choice..  A Choice To Live My Life In Peace..
Though It's Hard.. But I Wanna Keep Going.. I Won't Stop For Anything..
But Be Aware That One Day.. My Blindness Will Disappear.. And My Eyes Will Reveal..
Not Only The Truth That's Been Hidden.. But A Person Chose to Be Blind To Be With You..!

The End..
THoughts By Me..

P.s: ( I Wrote Those Words For Every Person Overlook The Little Things He/She Get From Other People That Hurts.. And The Reason To Overlook Is The Same Reason To Live In Peace With Those Who We Love Th Most.. Sure No One's Perfect That's Why We Overlook.. So Think Twice Before Hurting Anyone So Close To You.. Cuz That Anyone Could Decide To Open His Eyes And Can't Hold On To You Se He Let Go..! )

The Word " Understanding '' ...

Hello There...

I'm Going To Write About " Understanding "... Not About Understanding Words, Numbers, Facts... Etc
But About Understanding Others And Their Circumstances... Sure We Are All Not The Same.. And What We Face Everyday Is Different... How We Handle It.. How We Face It..

Here Comes Your Part To Understand Others... Don't Start To Blame Them About Something They Do, Did, Or Didn't Do.. Smothing They Say, Said Or Didn't Say.. Be That Open Arms That Holds Them When They Need A Hug The Most.. Be That Friend That Holds On Them When No One Does.. Be That Solid Ground To Stand On When It Shakes Around Them..

Be There For Them.. So They Will Be There For You When It Gets Hard On You..


" When I'm Lost Along The Way..
And I Can't Face Another Day..
And If I Stumble On The Road..
And If I Can't Carry The Load..
And If I Lose My Faith And Kindness, And Generosity..
Would You Hold My Hand..
Say You UNDERSTAND My Pain..?! "





P.s : ( I'll Always Be There For You.. Just Understand Me In The Times When I Can't..! )

Hallema Defend Herself..!!

Hello There..

I Think Most Of You Saw The Videos Of " Hallema Bolan " .. I  Was Actually In Shock When I Saw Them.. And Thought How Could She..?!!

But Yet My Aunt Called Me And Told Me To See The Tv And Listen To Hallema Defending Herself Live..

Check The Video Out..

And It's Up To You To Believe Those Videos Or Her..

Talk To Yourself..

Hello Everyone..


Recently.. I Was Talking To A Friend Of Mine.. Who Seemed Disturbed By Something.. But Couldn't Know What Was Bothering My Friend.. Cuz My Friend Isn't The Type Of Person Who Share His/Her Problems.. My Friend Keeps What Disturb Him/Her Inside.. And Keep On Collecting Those Disturbing Stuff Over Time.. And Explode At The Very Last Minutes Over A Silly Reason..
( Do You Find Youself Like My Friend..?)


Anyway.. Even Though My Friend Tried To Talk About It.. But He/She Couldn't.. Cuz You Can't Just Change A Life Long Habit Over A Night..!


Sometiems Talking To Others Whom You Trust Or Who You Consider Close To You Helps.. Not Only You Reveal What's Bothering You Or Taking It Out Of your System.. You May Find A Solution.. They May Also Make You Feel Better..


But If This Is Hard On You.. You Can Always Talk To Yourself..!


No I'm Sure About What i'm Writing.. Yeah I'm Not An Expert.. But Talking To Yourself Isn't That Bad.. Actually When You Think About It.. When A Thought Cross By Your Mind.. It's Actually Shared Between You And Yourself..


Let's Talk About When You Are Prepared For Bed For Example.. Once You Put Your Head On The Pillow.. You Start Remembering Your Whole Day.. And This Time When You Realize What You Did Wrong.. And What You Forgot To Do.. What Good Thing You Did.. This Whole Thing Is Between You And You..


So When You Say Within You " What Did I just Do..?! " , " Is This Good..?" , And Whatever Sort Of Question You Have..  You Are Asking Youself..


I'm Not Telling You To Create A Whole New Identity .. But Be More Comfortable To Be Your Own Best Friend.. No One Can Be More Honest To You More That Yourself..


So When You Fail To Share What's Bothering You With Others.. Feel Free To Share It With Yourself..
Go Ahead Google It.. You'll Find It Normal.. And Alot Of People Do It..!






P.s : ( I'm Not An Expert.. But I Think It's Ok To Talk To Youself.. It's Only A Problem When You Talk To Yoself And Don't Know Who You Are Talking To.. !! Beside What I'm suggesting Here Is More Thinking And Talking Between You and Yourself (Internally) More Than Talking To Yourself In Public :P )

How Much Are You Willing To Give..?!!

Hello Everyone..

The Tittle Was A Draft For A While.. And When I Thought About It I Realized.. Giving Isn't Only About Material World.. Now I'm Not An Expert In Categorising " GIVING ".. But All I Know Is How We Give Each Day Without Knowing..!

Even A Smile For A Stranger Consider As Giving.. I'd Love To Think About It As Giving A Peice Of Your Soul.. Don't Get Wrong.. You Are Not Giving Away Any Part Of Who You Are.. You Like Spreading The Goodness Inside You In Someone Else's Soul...

So As Giving Away A Toy, Food, Colthes, Money Or Anything Is Because You Give Them To Someone Who Needs Them Or Just Because You Want To..! But Some People Don't Need That.. Some People Only Want Respect.. And Some Want Care, Love, Hug, Friend, And Some People Want Nothing From You So Give Them Something Which Is Letting Them Live In Peace..!

You Can Think About It And You'll Realize You Give A lot Through Ur Day Without Knowing.. And Each Little Thing You Do Has An Effect On You.. And What's Around You..

But What Make It Hard Is Giving So Much Without Recieving Any.. That's When You Ask Youself " How Much Am I Willing To Give..?! "

You Don't Need Anything In Return For Being Who You Are.. If You Are A Truely Giver.. Don't You Ever Expect Anything In Return.. If You Get Something It's Ok.. But If You Didn't Don't Let That Break You..!

And Always Remember: " You Get The Best Out Of Others.. When You Give The Best Of Yours..!" By Harvey S. Firstone 

So Don't Ask How Much I'm Willing To Give.. Always Ask " What More Can I Give..?! "

P.s :( So Always " Give You Heart Out.. It Might Be Someone Else's New Start..!" )

 

Can I Live With Him..?!

Hello...


Today I Really Couldn't Get A Good Night Sleep Since I Decided To Stay up Late Watching Movie And Then Reading.. That's When I Decided To Take A Nap Afternoon.. But Couldn't Sleep Either Cuz My Mind Was On.. Thinking Thinking Thinking.. Such A Random Thoughts..!


And The Main Thought Was.. Traditional Marriage ( Zawaj 3n 6areQ Alahel o Alm3aref )..!!
Scary Huh..?!


Not Really..


I've Always Imagined Myself Getting Married After A Love Story.. But Since Some Relationships Now A Days Are Getting So Superficial.. I Started To  Lose Faith In That Love Story.. After All This Is A Real Life Not A Fairy Tale..! So This Leaves One Last Option.. Or Let's Say One Hope Or Chance For Love and Romance Which Is Traditional Marriage..!


I'm Not Against It..! Cuz That's How My Grandpa, Grandma, Mom, Dad,  And Lots Of People I Know Got Married.. I Know That Love Comes With Time ( M3a Al3eshra ).. It's Just.. It Scares Me To Ask Myself : " Will We Understand Each other..? " " Is He Good..?! " And lots And Lots Of Questions I Can't Remember Them Right Now..!


I Know Myself.. I Can Put Up With Everything.. And Anyone.. But Sometimes Some People Take The Nerves Out Of You For Silly Reasons.. And Those People Who I Can't Deal With.. I Give Them The Silence Treatment.. So Heres A Question : " Is He One Of Those People..?! " ( sorry bs fe naw3ya mn alnas mn allah mategdron tet7amlonhom..!!)


Sure Btgololii There's Engagement ( Fatrat Al56oba ).. But How Long Will It Be..?! 2 Months, 3 Or 4..!!
That's Not Enough To Figure Out A Man..!!


So That's Why I Was Totally Not Going For Tradional Marriage..! But When It Actually Happend To Me Few Times.. I Swear It Gave Me This Feeling I've Never Felt Before.. Butterflies In My Stomach.. Being Very Very Shy ( Adri Mo Layeg :P  ).. o0 Mako 9oot Kelsh Kelsh ( 7eel Tharba :p ) lool.. And Ofcourse Trying To Answer The future To Be Husband's Questions .. And Trying To Ask Him Back.. And To Chit Chat For A Little Bit.. And Smiling Every Once and A While to Impress Everyone..! Lovely Situation.. ( Comedy Scene Wallah )

But Despite All That.. The First Question That Comes to My Mind Is.. " Can I Live With Him..?! " I Know Most People Told Me.. If He Is The One ( Ya3ni N9ebch Ra7 twafQeen 3ala 6ool o sb7an Allah kelshay ytsahal ) Or ( 9alai EsteKharah o Inshallah T3rfen Etha Mrta7tla or la ) I Know All That But What If I Still Have Those Doubts..?

So Does This Mean That I Prefer to Marry Someone I Love.. Yeah I Still Do.. Well In My Defence.. I'll Know At Least What Type Of Man I'm Dealing With.. And I'll Know Him Better, And Know That There Are Things That Can Cover His Mistakes Or Flaws.. Instead Of Someone I Totally Don't Know Only By Time I Will..


You Gonna Tell Me It's Nice To Figure Out Each Other Every Single Day.. Yeah It's Nice The Discovering And Getting to Know Each Other.. And Every Day Is A Surprise Itself.. But Not Every Surprise Can Make You Happy..!!


Anyway, Talking About Both Type Of Marriages Won't Stop Cuz They Both Have Advntages And Disadvantages.. Some People Will Prefer One And Others Will Defend The Other.. I'm Just Sharing My Own Thoughts..


At The Very End.. I'm Not In Love.. And There's No Traditional Marriage Proposal On The Way.. So Al7mdallah I'm Relaxed.. I Will Never Know What's Gonna Happen Next.. All I Know Is I'm Ready To Adjust With How My Life Goes..!


P.s: ( Thanks For Reading.. :D Share You Thoughts If You Have One..! )


Ooh One More Last Thing I Felt This Song Can Fit With What You Previously Read :P So Enjoy..